SEVEN ENCOURAGING SIGNS A PERSON WILL MAKE IT THROUGH THEIR SLUMP
My parents own a cattle ranch in the pine trees of Northern Arizona. One of the most memorable horses on the ranch through the years was a horse named Apache. Let me explain.
In his earlier years, Apache was raised on a ranch in New Mexico. The ranch was on a high plateau with very few trees. While there, Apache had the horrible experience of being bitten on his nose by a rattlesnake. As a result of the painful bite, Apache developed an avoidance strategy.
Every time Apache saw a tree limb on the ground or anything that resembled a snake, he would instantly side step. He was fast. The problem was the rider on Apache, when he thought he saw a rattlesnake, would instantly be stranded in the air four feet from where Apache had side-stepped. A rider, stranded in the air, with horse and saddle missing, is a problem. As far as I know, Apache didn’t like to share his problems with the rider, but he did anyway.
Apache eventually came to my parent’s ranch from New Mexico. There are fallen pine bows’ everywhere and every pine bow looked like a snake to Apache. He had never seen so many snakes. We had to inform anyone riding Apache about his avoidance strategy. You never know what is going to look like a snake to a horse with an issue…and the rider on board. Apache was in a slump.
There’s a lesson here. Many people are like Apache, bitten by bad stuff happening to them in life. Maybe they have had a divorce, business failure, lost their best friend or loved one. Maybe they have just lost hope in life. Like Apache, they are side stepping in life, trying to avoid ever hurting again. You can’t blame Apache. What happened to him was tough, real tough. The saying goes, “a cat that jumps onto a hot stove will never jump on a stove again.” The problem is that the cat will never jump on a cold stove either. That’s called a slump.
But, through the years, I have seen many Apache type of people, get out of their slump. I’ve noticed seven encouraging signs that are present when they have gotten back into circulation.
The first encouraging sign is they were willing to change, to do something different, and to take the first step. It takes time to do that. Second, they were willing to face the reality of what happened and accept what has happened. Third, they were willing to learn about their issues. Fourth, they were willing to reach out to others, get counseling, or join a small group with others with similar challenges. They were willing to give up being the lone ranger.
The fifth encouraging sign is they were willing to start replacing destructive habits, attitudes, outlooks, and thinking with constructive ones. The sixth sign is they were willing to accept that getting out of their slump will be a process, not an event. They were willing to give time…time. And finally, they were willing to let God help. They are willing to give up their self-sufficiency for God’s ability.
If you or someone you know has a number of those signs, be encouraged! Incidentally, Apache became the one of the best horses ever on the ranch. You see, you can teach can old horse new tricks.
Ed Delph January 20, 2014